Something beautiful.

Dwyer | April 23, 2012 | 2 Comments

What is it about meeting someone new? Feeling a spark and that tugging feeling on your sleeve but dismissing it because of something physical, maybe a smile, nice body or those sexy eyes. A spark or that initial “WOW” has always fascinated me because it so often clouds a person (maybe just me but I [...]

“YOU CAN’T IGNORE ME, I…IGNORE YOU” (that’s my ego talking)

mariposa | April 2, 2012 | 1 Comments

In my constant search for growth and understanding, I try every year to figure out what my lesson is. Last year it was surrender.  Surrender to where life is taking me, because my plan is busted and my eggs are getting old.  I had a plan, but GOD holds the master plan and I default [...]

Sometimes the Truth Hurts

Savannah | April 2, 2012 | 2 Comments

I am woman who has become brutally honest.  Sometimes I am even accused of being insensitive; I am aware that complete honesty is sometimes ugly.  As such, I really do try to check myself and make sure that if I am about to deliver a dose of UGLY truth that I do it with humility [...]

The age gap question…

Dwyer | December 22, 2011 | 2 Comments

Finally, back to my canvas, missed it.  I wanted to touch on a subject quickly that I have never thought of until recently, age… I recently meet a wonderful young woman whom I actually get along with very well.  So one would think what’s the problem or the hold up for that matter.  Well something [...]

A forgotten value PATIENCE.

Dwyer | November 9, 2011 | 3 Comments

Patience — the quality of being patient, as the bearing of provocation, annoyance, misfortune, or pain, without complaint, loss of temper, irritation, or the like.     Wow, a blank canvas, really, an opportunity perhaps or maybe Pandora’s box waiting to be opened, only time will tell.  I have reflected and spoke aloud (yes a [...]

The good old “Double Standard”

mariposa | October 27, 2011 | 1 Comments

A portion of this falls into my Guilty Pleasures (Sex) blog.  I was listening to the radio as I always do in the morning and today it was “What guys think Thursday”.  The subject was why does a man have a hard time with a woman exploring their sexuality?  In more detail, a guy was [...]

SOT….Sick of trying to be in a relationship!

mariposa | October 27, 2011 | 1 Comments

In the mornings while driving to work I often listen to the same radio station.  This morning I heard the radio show host say SOS Fridays (sick of being single).  On Fridays, people can call in to share or confess that they’re sick of being single experiences and then get suggestions on how to find [...]

The Shoe Diaries

Savannah | October 6, 2011 | 4 Comments

Today I will introduce you to my theory on shoes, but the shoe saga continues.  Look for posts and pictures in the future. My shoe philosophy: Shoes always fit without judgment.  It doesn’t matter if you are bloated, having a bad hair day or not feeling great in your clothes. Cute, sexy shoes always look [...]

Okay……so it wasn’t a post-it!

mariposa | September 16, 2011 | 2 Comments

What is worse than ending a relationship? It’s having it end suddenly without notice and not knowing the reasoning behind the ending. There’s almost nothing worse than feeling like you got punched in the face with your hands down. I’m in complete denial (I can’t believe I’m here again)! Trying to glue my heart back [...]

Regina George Lives

Savannah | September 12, 2011 | 1 Comments

When I saw the movie “Mean Girls,” I thought it was hilarious and it made me grateful that the games, manipulations and popularity contests of High School are in the past.  Funny thing is it NEVER really ends! I work in a professional office and a woman in an upper management position is Regina George.  Just [...]